You deserve a partner in life that values you and your relationship. None of us are able to see that your WH can offer you that any longer. I tend to believe that the posters here that are "successful" at DBing are not necessarily the ones that have saved their M, but more so are the people that have done some soul searching, detached from an unhealthy relationship and are moving into the future stronger and with more optimism.
Well said, Blu.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17