Is this something you worked out with your W or did you just do it?
She recognized that we needed to be physically apart after one of our fights. So we both agreed that seeing each other is not good right now. I did this for four months when I finally decided that I was not in the wrong and moved back in. I see her a lot less now because I am out so late.
Honestly, you need to be away from her as much as you can. Make excuses to go out when you know she is coming home. Hell, get in the car and drive somewhere!
You live in New Mexico, possibly Albuquerque? I always liked going to either the west end of town overlooking the city at night or on Tramway. And I would just look at the city lights and let my wind wander. It helped for a few moments to get my mind off of other life stuff happening at the time.
