Wife in MLC, I think

[Ready2Change]

I have a sneaking suspicion that once I am back in the picture, she will demand I move out because I make her scared and uncomfortable,

This is a common tactic. Do not EVER be alone with her if you believe she will claim this. Have a friend alone with you, your phone can be a witness. Your kids can also be witness, not that you want that. Last thing you want is a restraining order against you.