Letting Go. Detaching. Done Engaging.

[Did]

Dropped D4 at school today. W there working out same as me. Tried to look at her in those damn yoga pants as little as possible but she was def looking at me hard.

At gym she approached me saying she hopes to be a completely different person after the test. And the weight / guilt of not working is off her shoulders.

She just texted me - thanked me for having D4 so much this week and said she appreciated it. She has her licensing test Thursday so hopefully she can start working. Finally. She also offered me extra jackfruit tacos as a token of her appreciation when I pick up D4. Any recommended response?

D4 is with her while I do a group speed class then I pick her back up for overnight. Many times I work just an hour or a couple hours and make good hourly money but am free the rest of the day. Babysitter for similar situation tomorrow.

I am continuing to focus on me and not reach out to her. Just trying to be respectful as my daughters mom.