AS, if she pushes the subject again then I will. Do you think she was testing waters? I feel as though she wanted to see if I’d beg and pursue (since the last time we talked I was).
Mind reading will get you no where. Take her at face value. She wants to discuss the D, with the goal of not fighting it out in court. Listen. Validate. Do nothing to help her with the D, but be ready with your own legal advice, and let her know that you are.
But what about believe nothing of what she says and only half of what she does?
Yes that still goes. But the majority of that is when they start talking about positive things. "I want to discuss reconciliation." Be leery.......
In this case you should assume she wants to discuss the D. But yes, don't believe anything she says....so don't be surprised if the conversation ends up about something else entirely. And certainly do not try to mind read her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
