I am very happy for you. You are definetely piecing together your M. A success story.
The fact that your H is willing to do Dr Phil's program with you shows his commitment to you.
My situation is still the same. Maybe worse. My W has decided to move out and live in our rental house. She asked me last Feb when it is free, she wants to move in. Last week the property was vacated. But I don't know when she wants to move in. She has to buy some furnitures first.
I will not help her unless she asks me. Otherwise she may think that I want her out.
I hope that my W can see a clearer picture after she moves out, and makes a right decision for her.