Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Originally Posted by imlost8
Good morning everyone, back for some more help, really not sure how to respond. This morning got a text from W at 7am “good morning, how are you feeling?” I said “I’m good” and she said “we need to meet up and talk about things to get everything straight. We need to talk about the divorce and other things, I don’t want to fight in court. I hope you understand.”

So, first off wtf? You ask me how I’m feeling then hit me with this? I haven’t responded and not sure what to say. Is she testing me to see if I pursue? What am I supposed to say here?


I like Steve's response, I'll just add that if she wants to talk then go ahead and talk. Don't keep blowing her off about it. It's fine to tell her you are busy but do give her a date and time that you're willing to meet. She may very well not follow through on it. As Steve said they can be hell-bent-for-leather one minute but happy to put in on the back burner the next. My ex had all the papers drawn up by a L and then just sat on them for a good 9+ months until I ended up being the one to push it through.


laugh Judas Priest fan, eh?

Last edited by Steve85; 12/18/18 05:40 PM.
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