Do I purchase a little someting from D and S to WW? I know D4 would be really proud to have a gift for her, and just seeing my little girls smile, if I took her out and bought something is really the only reaction I want, and S1, well he is too young to understand.
Given that she's actively in an A and hiding present for OM under the bed, I would just help the kids make something for her. They're young so will need your help, so maybe come up with something "personal" that you can help them with. After BD I bought round paver kits for the kids to put their handprints in and decorate with little bits of tile. It was a way to help the kids get something for W without it being pursuit on my part.
