Thanks. Our D was filed in July and remains stagnant now. I am a patient person but an affair is beyond my limits for what is acceptable in a M. I had to move out of the home because I felt myself slipping. I did not want the kids to see that. I have restraint but any outburst on my part could be bad for my career as well. This states medical board is very strict.
Her attorney has stated she wants it over within weeks. I want to try a separation for months. We still have the house and that needs to be sold prior to finalizing anything. My hopes are this gives us time and space we need. I've gone dark except for communication about the kids. I feel the A will peak during this time as well, which is beyond my control.
I hope to have Xmas at the house with the kids and will discuss with her.
