Thank you Steve, that does make sense. I just responded “Busy, we’ll talk another time” and she said “ok”.

My W has always been extremely indecisive. Right now I know she is set on this but knowing her it can change in an instant. I need to find the way to help her bounce back the other way and look at me in a different light. I wish we could go back to right before the trip where there was still hope. Don’t know how to get back to that point. And it doesn’t help that she is sooooo proud that she won’t really come out and say that she wants to try. What do you all advise?