Originally Posted by Terapin

That being said, she came home from work today, walked over, and gave me a peck on the lips.


Why did she have to walk over? Why didn't you meet her at the door?

Look I know this lack of initiation has you questioning if her heart is in it or not, but most women typically do not like to be the aggressor! So you be. Walk her to the door when she's leaving. Meet her at the door when she arrives. She might start mimicking this behavior. Lead by example!

When was the last time you brought her flowers home just because? How are the touch charges going? Instead of laser-focusing on what she is or isn't doing, what can Terapin be doing better?


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