Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 2)

[SteveLW]

I also have to wonder if it’s healthy for me to be as physically detached to W as I am. Just viewing her as ‘meh.’

I’m sure the answer ultimately is ‘it’s what it is,’ but an attractive woman checks off all the boxes for me physically, emotionally and spiritually (as a Catholic who at least tries to faithfully live out the Church’s teachings and personal baptismal call).

So what is the alternative? You see there really are only two options. Either you are pressuring and pursuing, (and this board is riddled with LBSs that ended up D due to that tactic), or to back-off and detach. You can follow the path and try the former, but the percentage of success is much higher with the latter.