My mentor believes their is definitely something going on behind the scenes with W as if he is being coached..but can’t say for certain. Had the meeting today with s teacher and wife tried to dismiss his comments as trying to deflect from him getting in trouble...I can only shake my head at this point. I was calm and collected during the meeting, and firmly stated I believed all the change my S has endured with getting ripped out of the only school district and community he’s known to a completely new environment along with our pending divorce has really impacted him. School had a social worker do an evaluation with S today as well and in his responses to some questions he blames himself on W and I splitting...wants his family back, and is just mad. I only know to be the best dad and not bad mouth W in front of him.
I may soon make an attempt to get primary custody should I observe more of this behavior. I also got 7 referrals of childrens therapist from my IC and will be reaching out ASAP. Want to prevent w from trying to control this as well. Narcissistic behavior never wins in the end I believe.
Thank you for the prayers!
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
