Oh boy..........I am not going to hump and dump her and I am not going to violate any of her boundaries or disrespect her. I will kiss her though and see where it goes. That is what I meant by taking another run at it being a playboy is totally not my style. It is a man's job though to escalate things physically. TBH I would be absolutely shocked if sex happened (assuming she didn't hold true to her words) and if the convo comes up about a R then it won't happen. I also know I would not have sex with someone I am not attracted to. It doesn't work that way with me. I have also had really good conversation with women before that I felt nothing for when we met in person and I walked so I know I could do it again.
You all were the ones that said she would never hold true to her words. I think you all placed bets on it because you thought she was psycho for coming over to my house on date 2. Have you ever thought that I might actually be a really good guy and made her feel really comfortable????? Kitchen Lady invited me in her house on date 2 and HG had me in her house the first night and the second day. Oh and the girl from church who was the Widow as well on date 1 as well. If she would have had sex with me on date 2 you all would have told me to run for the hills J!!!!!!
According to her she has ran into problems at the 3 month mark and ends up breaking the R off. Who's fault it is I have no idea but probably a combo of both parties. I am not trying to hurt or deceive anyone. Although I assume she has probably hurt some people if she breaks it off at month 3. I guess that's ok though.
I am attracted to her. She does not have the normal body type that I like however she is very cool, a lot of fun, has great energy, and a smile that lights up the room. There is something about her personality and she is really cute. Obviously I am still learning her more deeper aspects and values so we shall see as I learn more. I won't mention what I do like about her physically or Don will tear me a new one.
I have had many 1 and done dates because there was no physical attraction however that did not happen with her. Outside of not having my normal body type the sex could be MIND BLOWING but obviously I have not experienced that yet although I do get a feeling that she knows how to handle herself.
G if I remember right you thought M was cute but you were not all in however I think you said the sex is AMAZING and your attraction to him has grown correct? I agree with RX and having sex could catapult it.
All of this coming from people who told me to expand my comfort zone J.
With that said who knows what happens with this girl. No relationship is ever guaranteed and this one would be no different if I ended up in one with her. It could end next month, 6 months from now, 1 yr or hell even tonight. All relationships will end at some point. Any time you open yourself up to be with another person you are exposing yourself to potential pain.
Nothing is guaranteed. I know I have hurt people and I know I have been hurt as well. That's part of life.
Also if we have sex it could be really fuching crappy and that would definitely be a deal breaker. She told me there was 1 guy that started crying during sex because it was his first time after his W died and some other dude that just didn't know what to do. Obviously she had sex with them and ended things because it sucked. $hit happens.
