Your goal is to attract you wife back to work on the marriage.
Here is what you FEEL like doing:
1) Lock her out of the house 2) Give her D papers 3) Flip her off 4) Go about my way
Lets start with number 3. Do you THINK that would be attractive to W? OK, how about #4, do you THINK that that would be attractive to W?
How about #1. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W?
And then we get to #2. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W? She might not like it. But she might think, OMG, pain has grown a pair and is no longer tolerating my disrespect. What else might she think?
Ok, now you are making me want to just sign my D papers and file them myself. To hell with waiting around to see what W thinks or what she wants......
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19