Originally Posted by Ready2Change

Your goal is to attract you wife back to work on the marriage.

Here is what you FEEL like doing:

1) Lock her out of the house
2) Give her D papers
3) Flip her off
4) Go about my way


Lets start with number 3. Do you THINK that would be attractive to W?
OK, how about #4, do you THINK that that would be attractive to W?


How about #1. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W?


And then we get to #2. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W? She might not like it. But she might think, OMG, pain has grown a pair and is no longer tolerating my disrespect. What else might she think?




Ok, now you are making me want to just sign my D papers and file them myself. To hell with waiting around to see what W thinks or what she wants......


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19