Your goal is to attract you wife back to work on the marriage.
Here is what you FEEL like doing:
1) Lock her out of the house 2) Give her D papers 3) Flip her off 4) Go about my way
Lets start with number 3. Do you THINK that would be attractive to W? OK, how about #4, do you THINK that that would be attractive to W?
How about #1. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W?
And then we get to #2. Do you THINK this would be attractive to W? She might not like it. But she might think, OMG, pain has grown a pair and is no longer tolerating my disrespect. What else might she think?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712