So now that I seriously dropped the hell out of the rope into the bottom of the sea, WW is being super nice lol and blowing my phone up with texts. WW texted me and said for the first time "My actions are not your fault, I do not blame you for the end of our marriage and for what I did to you".
I told WW that I am very busy and need to get to work. WW keeps texting about the kids, and gifts and about how they are spoiled etc. I will be glad if we can get along every day until I move out. I will be cordial to her. We can get along for the sake of the kids.
This is very, very, very common. She thinks you are both on the same page now with S and D. She no longer feels pressure, so can relax and be herself. WAW's feel like they have to be a raving b***** to the LBS to "force" him to want out of the M, which of course has the opposite effect. But once they think the LBS really is on board then they often swing to the opposite side and get super friendly. Doesn't mean anything, other than she no longer feels pressure.
