Had a great IC appt. Told me to think of W as my drug of choice and avoid it like I would heroine or alcohol if I was a recovering alcoholic. Unless she chooses to be consistent and not be selfish. Think of pros and cons and what I’m getting out of it.
"Unless she chooses to be consistent and not be selfish."
How would you even know this. I so wish your quote went like this:
Originally Posted by Did
Had a great IC appt. Told me to think of W as my drug of choice and avoid it like I would heroine or alcohol if I was a recovering alcoholic. Think of pros and cons and what I’m getting out of it.
That line I took out IS your ultimate problem. You keep looking over your shoulder at her going "has she changed the way I want her too?" Until you stop caring about that you won't move forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
