yes that is right.. they were colleagues before. I also remember ex telling me once a long time ago that after divorce, its upto me if she wants me to keep in touch with any of her friends. and she kinda hinted that I keep in touch with him. I and him were occasionally corresponding before and after divorce. He even invited me home once after divorce and I just gave a pretext that I was busy. Now he checks up on me once in a while.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
So how much info should I divulge? Or should I divulge anything at all?
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
On a positive note, I am moving on successfully with my life. And I befriended a girl during dating and we even had very passionate kisses and romantic sex. Although I dont have much feelings towards her currently, she is on cloud9 and wants to pursue this relationship further. She said that she has dated many and had a couple of hookups, but never ever experienced the warmth affection, passion and romantic love that she experienced. This was my first sex may be after 4 years or so. Its interesting that during the entire duration of our Sex starved marriage, I was unable to have a proper sexual relationship with my ex for whatever reason. But now I was able to perform it because the other person was also patient, trusted me, knew some sensual trigger points of my body (That i myself did not and do not know since all these years) and willing to accept me as her partner. I guess this is all that was missing in our SSM and wish that the Ex could realize this.
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M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
I cannot say 100% that I have moved on completely. But yes I am progressing well. Hence mentioned moving on..
But I can tell you I am definitely way way better than what I was a few months ago!
Last edited by Nutcrac; 12/17/1808:43 PM.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
So how much info should I divulge? Or should I divulge anything at all?
Are you thinking he's temp checking you at your ex's request? That's just out of curiosity because regardless of your answer- don't tell him anything other than you are doing awesome and enjoying life. That's all you want to get back to your ex, anything else she can just sit and stew and wonder about, not your problem.
Originally Posted by Nutcrac
On a positive note, I am moving on successfully with my life. And I befriended a girl during dating and we even had very passionate kisses and romantic sex. Although I dont have much feelings towards her currently, she is on cloud9 and wants to pursue this relationship further. She said that she has dated many and had a couple of hookups, but never ever experienced the warmth affection, passion and romantic love that she experienced. This was my first sex may be after 4 years or so.
Well, congrats, that's awesome! It's kind of a bummer you don't share her exuberant feelings but who knows, give it some time and maybe it'll blossom.
Are you thinking he's temp checking you at your ex's request?
Yes thats what i thought. I did not divulge anything. Just told him that I am doing good and asked how he was doing. He Q'ed where I had gone all these days for which I simply responded Not anywhere with a smiley.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Well, congrats, that's awesome! It's kind of a bummer you don't share her exuberant feelings but who knows, give it some time and maybe it'll blossom.
Yes It is still blossoming. According to her, It appears I have too much libido left in me to get wasted ! Lol..
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
