Moving on to the Bright Side Part 13

[rexgm]

LOL well I am going to make another run at it tomorrow as I know she is comfortable. Lets see if she will budge without the R talk or the confirming blood tests.

J,

I am starting to think you are just toying with her emotions, and it is just a game. If she doesnt want to have sex outside of a relationship and you are not looking for a relationship then you should be honest and tell her that. Let her make the decision to break her boundary. You are both adults and to just tell her that you are not ready for a relationship right now, but are open to one in the future, but any sexual intimacy right now does not mean exlusivity.

Also, me personally I dont understand of waiting for a relationship to have sex. That to me says the other person doesnt value sex much. I understand people may say the opposite and say sexual intimacy fast in a relationship means the sex is meaningless, but lets say you are committed to eachother and then have sex and it is horrible. Are you now going to stay in a relationship that has horrible sex, or are you going to break it off because there is no compatibility sexually. To me sex is important in a relationship and I couldnt start a monogamous relationship without knowing if I like the sex first.

Rexgm