Thanks for posting that Ginger, I feel like that could have been written to me too. Don't be afraid of sounding too harsh, sometimes our realities our just that harsh, and we just can't accept it.
I also read what Blu wrote and think about my sitch too.
Nicole, I think it's hard, but it's time we start accepting deal with reality. I wish you good luck on that.
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