Another update, I had to text W to let her know how much a bill was that we share. I said “Hi, the (bill this month was $xx)”. She responded “that’s fine, I’ll pay my half today on my lunch break. How are you, how did your retreat go?” I said “I’m good, the retreat went well, and I’m glad that I went”. She said “I’m happy for you, I hope that it helps and you start to see changes in yourself”. I said “thank you for letting me know about the program I appreciate it” and she said “you’re welcome” and that was it.
Don’t know if that’s positive or negative or neutral. I feel like I sabotaged my own going dark and NC but it was necessary to tell her to pay her half of the bill. I shouldn’t have to contact her for anything else until this time next month so I can continue my NC.
