Well I was going to post how well my weekend GAL went, but that just came crashing down.
Detached- stuff W does has no impact on my PMA and enjoyment of life.
Attached- stuff W does no matter how minor tends to send me spinning into the darkness.
Twofeet- GOAL = DETACHED
Why in the world do you care where the bench came from? If OM made it she probably told you it came from Etsy to save you from being upset about it. She was lying to spare your feelings.
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I ask D8 if he has met mommy's friend or his son or knows their names. She said no. I drop it after that, no need to pry further.
No need to pry AT ALL.
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On another note W told D8 that I might take her dog, but I wasn't sure and I was thinking about it. She told D8 that if I don't take the dog she doesn't know what's going to happen to him, might have to give him away. It was a cause of concern that's why D8 told me about it. WTF.......
If you don't want the dog then tell W you don't want it. That's W's issue to deal with, not yours. See above. DETACH.
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Seriously, what did I do to deserve this, because this sure as hell feels like punishment.
You didn't do anything. This stuff just happens. People contract cancer, they die in accidents, they get BD'd, terrible things happen to nice people every day. If it doesn't happen to you it happens to friends or loved ones. Life is not a trip down easy street in a chauffeured limousine. It's a gritty, grimy slog through mud and broken glass. You let it defeat you or you make it your b****.
