Dealing with a WW Pt3

[SoTorn]

SoTorn:
Hey man there's nothing wrong with what you said to her. She needs to know she is different than she was and it is a problem. She won't really care, though. It may give her pause, but she will self-justify every time. That's what WWs do.

Now you told her you're done, top talking about your game plan. Have you filed for D yet?

No, not yet. I was actually able to have a rational conversation with WW for a change. I spoke with her and just let her know that I am truly done. I need to get away from her. WW initially thought I was just trying to be mean by saying that I want to get away from her. She now realizes that I just want to move on and I cant if she is in my life.

I told WW that I want to move out. I told her that if she wants to file for D I cant stop her. However, I told her that first and foremost I want to move out, but I wasnt going to move out until she agreed to buy me out of the house.

I truly want nothing else from her. I just want half of the equity so I can get a new start and move out. I asked her to go ahead and get an appraiser out so she can refinance and buy me out before interest rates go up. WW agreed and said she would get the process started. We agreed that once I'm moved and settled and once we are confident the children are ok after they start living with us 50/50, we will sit down and end our legal marriage amicably.

WW was starting to temp check like crazy. I dont want to deal with that. It just hurts me even if I dont react. I am looking forward to moving out and getting on with my life. I actually have had several women show interest in me lately. Ever since I started taking care of myself I have gotten a ton of attention.