If no sex is a deal breaker for you and you see no progress, I have no problem with you lovingly communicate to her that this is not working for you. However, if she says she doesn't want have have sex with you, you have to walk and never look back.
My guess since you are on this board that you are not willing to do that just yet.
Also, if she's not doing the HW assigned I would consider canceling the sessions. MC is for two people committed.
I agree with LH. However, one caveat on the last one. If you are seeing small improvements (twice in 10 days) then more patience. Again you have to drop expectations. And you have to let the process work. If she had continued to do it zero times then I'd say take LH's advice. Maybe next time will be 4 times in 10 days.
Also, do not overestimate the power of unspoken pressure on her. She has to do the HW ORGANICALLY, not because you are "keeping tabs". If you can count the number of times and the number of days do not think she isn't feeling that. Let go of expectations. Stop keeping score. And you might be surprised.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
