G to answer you original question about chatting every day. Doing that without sex kinda of kills the vibe. It makes it feel relationship without the physical connection. I am going to see her tomorrow though so maybe I can get some oral out of it
J- I don't even know what to say. Except that you are on 2 different pages. You expect sex as connection and she expects communication and getting to know eachother as connection.
J, I think you need to be doing what LH is doing. You need to get the sex out of the way, but not with someone like her.