So woke up after a long night. D4 was missing mom, who has been away most of the weekend. S1 didn't sleep that well and I am running a cold with a fever. I managed to get them clothed, fed and into daycare.
I met a father in the daycare who engaged me at the christmas party a week ago, he is the director at the water work and our real estate broker had reached out for our annual spendings for use in the sales papers. So he knew from there that the house was selling. I briefly informed him, that me and WW were going our separate ways. Today he waited at me when I came out the gate, and asked if everything was allright. I just.. don't even know, but 20 minutes later I had told him how WW had acted from beginning to now. He said I could count on his discression, but he really hoped I could get out of her claws soon, meaning that the house would sell, because nobody should endure that behavior. He was so shocked that she was able to pull that behavior.
I felt kind of bad that I had said it, however why should I, she was in OMs bed while I had that situation. Not 1 month ago, she had a incident revolving around a wisdom tooth, and she was in bed for a week, couldn't do anything, so i took carer of the house from monday through thursday as well as kids and attended to her, because, im a dumb nice guy. Come friday, she realizes it might be a tooth. So goes to the dentist, gets it pulled and everything is dandy. Two hours later she departs for OMs house for the weekend.
Yesterday she asks me, if we have any exiting plans for the afternoon (she is really saying "im going to have a good time, what about you and the kids?"). I said that I had a fever, had been sleeping all through saturday when she came home, and i was still really sick so I guess I an the kids just had to relax and hopefully I would feel better.. She just answered "oh, okay..." then she left. That really showed me, how little empathy she holds for me, and it really hurts.
Up and onwards, she doesn't deserve me.
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
