Oh and one last point-
Ex would always say “what’s the matter with you.. I thought I married a young hot wife....”

Things like that made me feel very insecure. I think he thought I was supposed to walk around the house in high heels and a teddy all done up while I made him his dinner every night. Seriously.

But you know what, maybe I would have been more obliged if he said something like- “oh babe.. I love it when you wear xyz” or “I like it when you...” or “it makes me feel special when....”

Vs- you never....youre supposed to.....what’s the matter with you

Ugh. That’s how I never lived up to expectations.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16