I'm not sure I've followed your thread closely enough to make good comments but what you write about your son caught my attention. This is so sad. Your son is very young - is he really only six? And he wrote that he wants to die? If your wife can't set aside her agenda and focus on helping him to feel better then someone has to intervene. What did your mentor say? Couldn't all this legal stuff and house selling ordeal be put on hold so you and your wife can help your son to feel better? If your wife can't put her child first then it seems you need to fight back with all the lawyers, legal fees, etc.. that are out there to prevent further damage to your child. I apologize that I don't have more background information but it sounds like your son desperately needs to be with you. I really hope you can find a way to get him the help he needs immediately at any cost. I'll be keeping your and your family in my thoughts!