Hi all. Been over a week since my last post. Would love to be able to say that anything has changed or improved, but I can't. Things haven't really gotten worse either I guess, but we remain in this weird sitch.
MC has repeatedly recommended W to start initiating touching, physical contact, flirting, etc. In 3 months, I can count on one hand how many she's actually done. Last session MC gave us 'homework' of each of us intitiating some type of contact every single day. W has done this twice in 10+ days.
This is simply not good enough for me. W still talks a good game, but it's just not happening. I'm really starting to lose patience, and worse, interest. I'm not sure what my next move should be. We've already had this conversation several times, in and out of MC. I realize we both have a ton of stuff going on, especially with Christmas coming. But this seems ridiculous. I may tell her to cancel MC this week. If she's not going to do the 'work', then why continue to pay $40 a week to have the same conversation?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
