Don't look for ways to justify having sex with her like when you said:

Originally Posted by Did
Better we have sex than have sex with others?


Don't let it get close enough to where she is trying to tempt you with sex. Limit your interactions. And if you find yourself in that spot where she is trying to seduce you just get up and leave.

Originally Posted by Did
And every time you think of your ex you say out loud weakness leaving the body. I was doing that a week or two ago.
Did that help?

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.