Thank you peacetoday and job! She is getting a family photo of all kids and me from a recent trip from the kids. They wanted to give her this, even though I tried to talk them out of the version with me in it. Not sure how that will fly. As far as interaction, do I hug her when she arrives? What do I do if she surprises me and gets intimate, for the last time etc? Just trying to think through all contingencies. Thank you.