So today, I got to sleep late, and luckily my fever went down. I then took the kids, and we bought a christmas tree, got it decorated, and then we went grocery shopping.

After that we got some lunch and headed out to visit some family. We just returned home, and are about to order food (yea im sick, and don't really have energy or surplus on the mental account to do anything about it tonight).

I feel like my fever is returning, and i am gonna call in sick tomorrow (never am sick so don't feel all that burdened about that). And tonight when the kids are sleeping I will be crashing on the couch.

I need advice, even though I am not to talk about "Voldemort". She is coming home tomorrow, and most likely will be here for the week. You asked if I am going to allow the affair, I don't think its respectful, however, I can't really do anything? All I can do, is spend my time in the MBR when she is home, or go out. Is that enough? She definitely knows im done, but she whimsies around the house and looks all happy whenever she is here, and it annoys the living hell out of me to be honest. I like it when she is gone.


BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.