Are they step backs? I’m not so sure. You are allowed to have days when you feel a bit low. A step back would have been contacting her and telling her how she is making you feel as it would have been pursuit.
Is dropping your sons things off cake eating? I don’t think so. She probably should have got them herself but who benefited in the end. Your son. I’m sure he wants his stuff. Just makes you the better person in my view. Put your kids in front of yourself.
You’ve recognised that you’re feeling a bit low and what you need to do to remedy it. Problem. Solution. Sorted.
