My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 5

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I don't know if I'm going to hear her say she has that true remorse. She still blames me for everything she did.

By continuing on too easily, without requiring full commitment to the marriage, I showed her htat I don't have much respect for myself. I think she is in a "let's see how it goes" mode.

I went back and read Sandi's post about WW's, I think it's the one you were referring to. I so desperately want to believe everything is fine go back to the days where I can let my guard down. That's not happening.

How do I reset the boundaries and respect? How do I demand that "commitment" and get her to be remorseful now that I blew it and let her come back too easy? I do need everyone's help here. Thanks guys and gals.