I agree with you on the timing. I have started to go through the quotes page and taking notes where I can.
Right now, I'm at the stage where I want to lock her out of the house, give her D papers, flip her off, and go about my way.
I don't think that is a healthy way of thinking.
I feel that my spouse has "moved on". That is what everyone outside of these forums are telling me. Basically, she dropped the rope a long time ago and there is no "cheating" or whatnot. She moved on, I did not. Only thing is that she did not give me D papers. And I think it's because of the financial implications. Otherwise, I'd have been out of this a long time ago.
I am not working on the marriage anymore. Maybe I will in the future, maybe I won't. What I am working on however, is myself and being the man I need to be. And being a father I need to be.
I don't want to be married to this witch. I want that person out of my life.
GAL shortly. Photoshoot delayed possibly until tomorrow. So I'm going to go out, lift, and go to a Meetup this evening.
