This is it. It's time to crap or get off the pot. ...I have a lot of prep work to do. A lot....But it's time for this crazy ride to slow down. I need to get this under control. I need to get my balls back.
I strongly suggest digging deep through my quotes thread (start with #3). There is so much wisdom there.
The hard part in all of this is TIMING. First you have to figure out what stage of the process you are at. Then figure out what stage of the process the spouse it at. Then determine what type of interaction and behavoir is the most effective.
In your case, there is a third party involved (OM). Kinda hard to work on a marriage when one person has decided not to.
You are dealing with a spouse that lies and creates deception. Do you want to be this type of person? If not, then the best solution for you is to resolve to "Always speak the truth"...from this point forward until you pass away. Do you want to be married to this type of person?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
