paco your quote "I must accept that her path might lead her to a different destination from my desired one. Therapy sessions have been helpful in shining light into the dark areas that impede each of our paths. But once we are aware of these areas, I think each of us still needs courage to walk down the path most consistent with our individual souls. I continue to pray these paths eventually merge."
I believe that shows you still have an unhealthy outlook on this. You talk about accepting her path may be divergent. Then all I see is ours and wes. Too discover true acceptance you need to flip that on its head and focus on mes and Is. Focus on you!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018