As usual, seeing H yesterday has me thinking about him and his activities way too much. It always sets me back a notch after I see him, although is was pleasant and all business. He is still working on his parents Trust. There was a lot more he should have been doing along the way. I didn't point out that 2 or 3 years ago I mentioned these things to him and he never followed-up. Since I had taken care of everything pretty much until he moved out, I had to help get some paperwork in order to execute the Trust. I don't mind doing it. However, I was irritated when he randomly reminded me that the $ for being the Trustee was set aside and put in both our names some years back when his parents were alive. That is now in OUR trust. He said that I was included in that because I deserved it for all the care I gave his parents. I said "Meaning....." He got a bit flustered, and I changed the subject. The subliminal message of course was the $ in his parents trust is HIS (and his sister and niece), and not OURS. Whatever. I don't need it. Legally it's his anyway in a D. It's silly how he was trying to be sly to get his point across.
That left me thinking. Is he planning D? Has he even spoken to an attorney? I wonder if he would have the guts to sit down with me to tell me his plans, or will I just get served papers? I sometimes have fleeting visions of getting served at work. I hope he's not that hateful. Only time will tell.
Well, back to detachment and GAL. Bootcamp this morning, errands, then a get-together at a local brewpub for a neighbor that's moving away. D19 is working, S21 is out, but they'll be around this evening. It's nice to have them here. Tomorrow church in the morning, then a Christmas carol and reading service in the evening. Good weekend shaping up!
