R2C, thanks for being around and helping. It's great having a long tenured poster like you, truly.
Pain, you and me are both still learning, still not there yet. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Your W is a liar. We knew that already. Set the facts straight with the friend and move on. Think about the photoshoots, holiday plans, family dinners. Yet your W is "clearly" not wanting to be with you. And you want to do family things and gift exchanges.... Man I hate this crap. But this is our life right now.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.