1. NC immediately with OM. You (W) will call him and put him on speaker. I will be in the room to make sure you tell him that it's over. 2. Forgiveness (This applies mostly to myself) 3. The truth. Always. 4. Be available to listen to me with any thoughts I have pertaining us and our rebuilding process. I will do the same for you. I failed to listen to you before this went down. I will not make the same mistake again.
So how do you enforce these boundaries?
I need to re-read the boundaries thread before I can come up with a response.
Also, I cannot just come up to WW and tell her "Hey, if we decide to piece...". This is more of a back-pocket prep work kind of thing, right?