What I am saying is take the focus off your wife> Focus on this:
Originally Posted by coach
"Here is what I need in my marriage___________, ___________, _____________, and________________. If you can't respect that then I have decided that I can't be married to you."
The blanks are the non-negotiable issues. "I won't share you with another man."Joint decisions on how we spend our money."
What are your TOP 4 non-negotiables?
1. NC immediately with OM. You (W) will call him and put him on speaker. I will be in the room to make sure you tell him that it's over. 2. Forgiveness (This applies mostly to myself) 3. The truth. Always. 4. Be available to listen to me with any thoughts I have pertaining us and our rebuilding process. I will do the same for you. I failed to listen to you before this went down. I will not make the same mistake again.
