Could be Steve but the good thing here is that it doesn't matter in terms of my own life. I could try and mind read her all day long. I'm at a point where until she comes at me aggressively with the specific intention of us trying again...I'm just not interested in dealing with her. She can just go do her thing and I'll do mine. I'm at peace because I said what I needed to say to her two months ago, she knows where I stand, and that's that. I think she was expecting me to chat her up yesterday as she kept thanking me for getting in touch and apologizing for not getting in touch with me. I just ignored all that and simply replied "No prob take care." I'm not playing her game because I was bored stiff playing it before and I'd still be bored with her now. So she can gallop into the sunset again. I really wasn't expecting to hear from her again after she went dark a couple months back so maybe this time she got my message loud and clear and will stay away. We shall see my friend.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
