Are you saying that I should not engage (pursuit) in any kind of status talk?
What I am saying is take the focus off your wife> Focus on this:
Originally Posted by coach
"Here is what I need in my marriage___________, ___________, _____________, and________________. If you can't respect that then I have decided that I can't be married to you."
The blanks are the non-negotiable issues. "I won't share you with another man."Joint decisions on how we spend our money."
What are your TOP 4 non-negotiables?
Think about yours before you read mine:
1) I will not share you with another man. 2) I expect you to tell me truth, even if I don't want to hear it 3) I will listen to understand your point of view and expect the same respect 4) Forgiveness.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
