There's nothing I can do about how she is, and I don't want to be with someone being like that.
But....
1) You KEEP having these discussions like you posted on the last page. Whats the point? If you are trying to get her to 'wake up', it isnt working. You just keep smashing your head into the wall. "I dont approve of you stealing money from me".....like, how does that come across as anything particularly relevant at this time? I think when you see her, you should drink 15 STFU smoothies and just leave it alone.
It had crossed my mind that W might be hiding money because she assumed that I'd be doing it too. I had read somewhere that people in such circumstances often assume that their spouse is doing the same money hiding stuff so I thought I'd say to WW that I'm not doing that sort of thing.
Here's a really weird thing... I've just spoken to a shop worker who sees W taking money out and W doesn't know that I know them. They said they had just seen W and (for the first time since months before BD) W paid for goods in cash rather than paying on a card and taking out cash. Now either W has changed her ways about hiding money and is using cash she's hidden or she somehow knows how I'm aware of one of her scams so is going out of her way to be seen paying in cash.
Originally Posted by Amoafwl
You are talking about inviting her to Christmas dinner.......
