I got so wrapped up in the talk of grammar and meat preferences that I forgot to ask something that stuck out to me. This is totally just out of curiosity...not trying to be a smart aleck. I feel like I missed a step somewhere along the way again. You have said several times in relation to this lady that she does not have sex outside of an R. But now you are getting tested because you say she won't have sex with you unless you get tested. How did we get from no sex outside of R to you getting tested for her peace of mind? It doesn't seem like you are ready for the whole R thing with her yet as y'all are still getting to know each other, so, not sure where the test is coming into play.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids