She will be coming to my house this year, unless she changes her mind.
I strongly suggest that things look "different" in the house when she arrives. You have time. It is your house now. You Make it look the way you want. Things are moved around. Missing or new items. New smells (Like fresh cinnamon rolls) . Clean. If you didn't do Xmas lights outside. Get them up this year. New wreath on the door. Xmas music going. New pajamas. Whatever you want. Show her you are taking care of yourself and everything else. Make sense?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712