Sounds like a good plan TF. D8 knows what she wants and there is no reason that can't happen. Send out the invites to everyone D8 wants and whomever wants to come celebrate her B-day is welcome to. Those that don't can skip it, W included.
I agree.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
