My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 5

[ovrrnbw]

Did I miss this somewhere along the way or did none of this actually happen???

She is in denial that it was an affair.. Her parents support her and have always been her moral compass. I've discussed how it is an affair with W and in-laws. They don't want to believe, so they don't. I'm not wasting my breath trying to change their minds. W knows, and I'm not going to pressure her to admit it.

My stated boundaries were: MC, relationship building, respect, openness and honesty, no other people in our lives.

Seriously, what is going on here?

It's a mess. But what do I do? Force an R talk and demand her commitment? When she came back in October I said we can't have other people in our lives, she agreed.

But allowing her to walk all over you

Do you mean she just isn't treating me well?

I think the affair is over. What do I do? Tell her I don't believe it's over? I know she went to OM's at the end of Nov but I am not sure what to do about it. So here I am...

I could wait until we meet the priest again to bring things up so we have someone to help facilitate the conversation.

I need to make a plan of action, but I'm not sure what to do other than get back into MC/priest MC meetings on the regular. Probably stop letting her talk to me like crap which isn't often but she is throwing little fits over small things.

I'm off to reread Sandi's thoughts.