Whirlwind of Hurt 6

[Twofeet]

Again, things will be tough. I have D8 on her bday next week. D8 birthday wish is that we go out for dinner as a family with W, inlaws and my parents. W doesn't want our parents together. Both of our parents have expressed they don't care because it's not about W it's about D8. W can stay home on D8 bday if she wants to be that way. Hopefully, she will go. We then have a party for D8 with school friends & cousins that weekend as it's a part of the child plan to share duties and expenses in the kids bday parties. Lastly, it is also a part of the childplan that the parent who doesn't have them on Christmas day that year can come over in the morning to open presents with the kids. She will be coming to my house this year, unless she changes her mind. After that we will have nothing going on together (other than taxes and some other financial pieces to wrap up which) until the next bday in the summer.